Busca & Filtragem em Datasets Parquet

Consulte em alta velocidade através do motor DuckDB diretamente sobre os arquivos .parquet.

Limpar Filtros
Resultados Encontrados (100)
Baixar Arquivo Completo
Origem / Dataset Autor / Usuário Data Conteúdo / Texto do Registro
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
pari_ho_ma
afta1v
1785060908.0
VC garya suit rakhya cha 🤷🏻‍♀️
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
pari_ho_ma
afta1v
1785061295.0
Wtf early it's evening uthekai chaina
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
Superb_Leather_635
afta1v
1785061375.0
Ohh yesto po raixa. Still waking up is painful
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
BicycleLeading
2qszq
1785069991.0
People complaining about this when I wrote about my plan people asked for a follow-up I give a followup everyone loses there shit I leave parts out people want to know more but insult me and say im engagement baiting etc lmao
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
Dapper-Indication707
3ph6l
1785070653.0
You aren't wrong I guess but the point I'm making is that low tier environments are generally not worth it if you CAN go for a higher tier one. The risks of low tier are way greater than that of high tiers because EVEN IF your high tier environment is toxic, you could still leverage the opportunities offered by your school, which is something that low tier environments don't. You get way more resources to help you in academics. But yeah maybe I went overboard with "they are living the life" because afterall I'm not really representative for all high tier student being a current high tier myself (big 3 uni)
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
mapphew2
307da
1785073929.0
Do all of Kenji, then Asuka, then do Donald Love, Asuka comes back with later missions.
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
EntertainerNo5600
2rgmf
1785088486.0
Yeah but a lot of those kids are straight hermits so
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
Bottal_ko_dhakkan
afta1v
1785093172.0
![gif](giphy|5NbbVJeSLs1etZYjpT)
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
eds91
j3yxni
1785097726.0
It's a regular, old Plumbus.
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
Davidier
2v1zrq
1785103729.0
250 years of pain. Come back to Britannia, yank.
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
orangevega
2qhrn
1785104545.0
dude whewee then we'll see some puff puff pass
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
DrRobertBanner
2v1zrq
1785104660.0
Oh thank fuck the south West has remain untouched
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
Dxno_0ctvne
22w8b0
1785119147.0
The fact not a pedo is something that has to be put (while its such an obvious thing) is wild to think about🫪
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
paaaaagon
9rz4pc
1785119530.0
yeah well i’ll see what you gotta say when i got a huge cigar in my mouth
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
chosenSith
22w8b0
1785120330.0
of course i don’t think it’s “serious” cheating either, but it’s definitely one of the closest things next to it. and it felt just as bad to me. like it genuinely disgusts and revolts me to think about MY man gooning to some woman who doesn’t even know about his existence. instead of me who genuinely loved every aspect of him and took care of him. he ruined this perspective i had of him after the third time already. (men reading this, this doesn’t mean u can test the limits. listen to her boundaries or walk away.) and the porn industry is horrible, so many women are sex trafficked and blackmailed into doing porn, so many underage people on there. it’s just disturbing all around. why why why do you need to see other bodies when you say mine is the most beautiful, perfect, the only thing you need and all this bs. i seriously felt worse sending him freaky pics after all that shit, to the point where i literally wouldn’t unless he asked. i never felt convinced even when he tried initiating things, i just felt insufficient, insecure, miserable. in my next relationship, im definitely mentioning this boundary within the first weeks, max the first month of talking. if you can’t put away the porn and have respect and eyes only for me, don’t fucking waste more of my time. 2 years of enduring that shit ruined my mentality me so badly i can’t even put it into words. stay safe girlie and put yourself first, always. i gave him too many chances, too much time.
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
No_Builder7571
22w8b0
1785120724.0
i 100% read that as "cares about grapes" and the first thought i had was "why not apples" 😭
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
InfiniteYesterday500
22w8b0
1785120901.0
Just realized my typos. *put*, *High schoolers*,  and *It’s* 🥹
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
No_Builder7571
22w8b0
1785121077.0
Girlie i feel so bad for both of you T-T I'm not in his head so i cant claim innocence but as someone who's gone through addiction, that must have crushed him mentally since id bet he genuinely did see you as amazing and beautiful but just couldnt stop. On your end it must have felt like betrayal on so many levels, what turned from nice compliments into just plain lies from your point of view. this guy who you loved slowly seeming less and less into you must have been horrible. im so sorry
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
PreparationEmpty2488
9rz4pc
1785121605.0
no it doesn't you can aurafarm more with a cig then a cigar
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
InfiniteYesterday500
22w8b0
1785122851.0
Wolf cuts are peak bro. Or jellyfish cut 
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
SuzukiPVP
2rhqm
1785124334.0
Damn congratulations for keeping stuff like this a once a year rarity
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
InkBoyCA
22w8b0
1785125809.0
The last one is a nice touch
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
AutoModerator
q0suy
1785127542.0
Thanks for participating on r/TheOCS! Keep in mind when browsing our community that disingenuous reviews and comments can happen. It is not simple to prove or identify each time, so it is important to be aware and vigilant when looking for reviews. If you believe that a submission is suspicious in some way, please report it. Multiple reports can remove it automatically and put it in our mod queue for inspection. Please make sure you are familiar with our rules before posting. [Check out our Discord](https://discord.gg/GEadd5cBts) *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/TheOCS) if you have any questions or concerns.*
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
Pudim_explorador9108
22w8b0
1785129068.0
Vaping is illegal?
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
Dapper-Indication707
3ph6l
1785134269.0
I really don't recommend anyone to go to low tier schools at this point. Im not even joking, it's either you go to an elite school, or you just don't go to school at all and self study. In my case, I only messed up my national exams because my environment was very toxic and unhealthy. I really couldn't study at all, no matter how much time or effort I put in. YIJC is really dogshit icl, especially that lecture example I gave, atp you are better off just self studying and not even coming to school. I don't ever want to be reminded that I came from that trash school where my mental health was damaged because of it. I really could not think of one thing about the school that was actually positive despite spending 20 minutes thinking of a pro where YIJC has that other JCs don't. In short, don't come to YIJC, absolute time waster
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
No-Option595
2qimv
1785134950.0
Yeah films and TV definitely show the edited funny stuff. Not the gross toilets, or the crying girl sitting alone, or 3am and the people you were supposed to be ride sharing with have just vanished after a drunken argument and you don't know if you should just try to get a taxi by yourself. That's not fun, it's scary. One urban myth when I was in my 20s was a bunch of people had a night out in a UK city (I'm British) and woke up in Ibiza, party island in the Mediterranean. Funny AF, logistics and finances of getting back were not part of the urban legend because that would be incredibly tedious. The most sensible person there would have had a horrible time sorting it out. maybe the existence of sports clubs depend on where you live? martial arts, for example, or a low key team sport which isn't too competitive and is just for fun. look at your local gym or local advertising to find one that might suit you and give it a go. Pick something a bit weird instead of standard. otherwise, a live music scene, preferably a bit niche, will get you a few fun anecdotes. take friends with you. getting into slightly chaotic fun isn't something that you just drop into. It's not a job application. You need to get to know slightly chaotic people. the "party scene" for sensible people is frankly dull, unless you get a kick out of babysitting people who are totally wrecked because you're the only sober-ish person there. Fun sht happens with people you know. You come across as a bit stiff and uptight. the person who says "are we allowed to do this?" Relax, don't rely on alcohol to do the relaxing for you. It's fun, not a tick box exercise.
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
Fun-Helicopter2234
2rd5j
1785136904.0
Isn't that the same for all the barbershops? Google Gemini said their are around 300 to 450+, way more then I thought, just in Auckland. I walk past a few of them, their mostly empty.
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
bskyb3
2rd5j
1785137212.0
True... “We \[the IRD\] made 320 unannounced visits to independent liquor stores and around 450 vape stores." [https://www.ird.govt.nz/media-releases/2025/compliance-work-continues-at-pace](https://www.ird.govt.nz/media-releases/2025/compliance-work-continues-at-pace)
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
AutoModerator
43or0d
1785137495.0
Welcome to r/MedicalCannabisOz! We’re glad you’re here. This is a space to share experiences, ask questions, and support each other around prescribed medical cannabis in Australia. Before asking questions, please check the pinned posts, [FAQ](https://www.reddit.com/r/MedicalCannabisOz/wiki/faqs) and use the search bar as your question may have already been answered. Remember to treat everyone with kindness and respect, keep discussions on-topic and accurate, and avoid arguing or fighting with other members. Moderators may take action at their discretion to keep the community safe and welcoming. If you see content that feels harmful or unsafe, please report it to the moderators via the report button. Check the full rules [here](https://www.reddit.com/r/MedicalCannabisOz/about/rules). Thanks for being part of our community! *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/MedicalCannabisOz) if you have any questions or concerns.*
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
Tricky-Fun-4784
2rd5j
1785137562.0
You’re answering a question I did not ask, I’m talking about stand alone vape shops.
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
Queensnobles
22w8b0
1785139256.0
![gif](giphy|l0K42RIaNOZcK7CNy) For me? Yep.
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
Recent_Orchid_3748
2rd5j
1785140948.0
One is one too many ;-(
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
InfiniteYesterday500
22w8b0
1785142304.0
Ik but some people get so offended that some people want to date an attractive person. People can still care about personality AND still like attractive people😭
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
Dangerous_Score2882
22w8b0
1785142685.0
And let's not mention what the teachers have done My algebra/geometry teacher once made AI generated images of a junior. I absolutely despised him not only for that, but for the lack of clarification on his homework assignments. Your odds of winning the lottery were much higher than actually getting an ounce of help. The most you could get out of him would be "figure it out yourselves."
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
clayur
30y26p
1785144076.0
That’s nice.
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
Psychedelia_Smith
30y26p
1785144346.0
Von sploof will solve your problems and allow to vape away on your balcony. Just sorted me out nicely on a holiday with kids in the next door cottage plus I value my own privacy. Doesn’t help with Reach media doing a round of dob your neighbour in if you smell weed stories again.
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
uglycaca123
22w8b0
1785145036.0
that's what i'm saying. genuinely why the actual fuck is 90/100 not great <////3
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
Legitimate_Visual441
30y26p
1785145795.0
Honestly, go and have a conversation with the guy once the heat has settled. Explain to him your situation that you are a medical patient, but you fully understand and sympathise with him as you have a child yourself. Possibly ask to exchange numbers and ask for a polite text whenever he has the kids coming so you can arrange another spot to take your medicine, just try and come to and understandable agreement for all parties, if he is being sound about it, you try to be as well, otherwise, reciprocate the same energy you get back 🤷🏽‍♂️
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
Fa1nted_for_real
22w8b0
1785146960.0
I dont have a boyfriend atm. Is it such a strange concept for someone to stand up for something on prinicple and not because they have any stakes to fight for? Like whats wrong with me caring about other people even if i dont know them lol.
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
Prudent_Cry9522
2xtuc
1785155451.0
Thank you
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
TEE_REX_001
gq17gz
1785160893.0
Yes i am
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
No_Independent3751
39e32
1785162273.0
For US options, looking at refillable pod systems may make more sense than chasing another closed pod brand. Juice Head has Cool Mint and Arctic Menthol, so those are more aligned with a menthol preference than the fruit-heavy juices people usually suggest.
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
sorE_doG
30y26p
1785162890.0
It’s about double the price
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
L_Lawliet_8793
22w8b0
1785164623.0
Exactly, she lost me at that
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
dgtbfan
2ra3x
1785166541.0
Save the poor guy the trouble and just break it off.
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
Feeling-Response8810
2ra3x
1785166633.0
Imagine what he looks at when you aren't around lmao
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
_kit-kaitie-kat-666_
2ra3x
1785166991.0
I read military and immediately stopped reading.. not in this economy 🤦🏼‍♀️
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
Former_Inflation9735
2ra3x
1785167156.0
i pity the girls who think this way
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
Business_Stand_8622
22w8b0
1785167857.0
Lwk, perfect standards
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
Melodic-Seesaw-1571
2ra3x
1785167938.0
You are not ready for marriage. You’re not mature enough to be a wife and crying and screaming because he watched 2 IG reels is absolutely insane. Get some therapy, learn to regulate your emotions better because at this point it doesn’t sound like you can be in a relationship.
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
Fa1nted_for_real
22w8b0
1785169620.0
12 hours later is crazy for someonr who aint gonna argue no more.
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
D-B0N3S
2rhqm
1785169996.0
It lasts for like 3 days comes on settle but knocks you out the park
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
Ok-Literature-8357
30y26p
1785170234.0
I've heard mixed things about them , really think they look great though I can see technology allowing us to have a veazy sized venty soon
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
average_meower621
22w8b0
1785170604.0
maybe go for someone within your age bracket 💀. If you date a sophomore something might happen when they’re in college and youre still doing your senior year.
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
Erinskins
22w8b0
1785171433.0
yea the preference is shallow but it doesn’t make the person as a whole shallow. everyone has attractiveness preferences.
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
RDXL116
22w8b0
1785171729.0
I mean is it so wrong to have a type?
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
Jmoz1310
30y26p
1785174353.0
The Xlux Roffu is great at just over £100 I’ve had mine for nearly 3 years and it’s still going strong even after being dropped multiple times
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
Voldemorts__Mom
2qwvc
1785175217.0
Thanks. I'm fine. It's 2 more weeks with them for training and then I'll be in my own car and there won't be people vaping in my face the whole day, so then I can withdraw and be fine 😃👍🏻 But thank you for the kind wishes
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
Select-Better
3nboq
1785176043.0
"blinkered into looking like Mitch McConnell" made us ☠️😂 sounds like it hit exactly how it was supposed to. Appreciate you rocking with us 💚 enjoy the rest of your pickups!
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
Title_Flaky
30y26p
1785177166.0
Veazy, i had an XMAX Pro V3 and whilst it was good, the Veazy is next level, S&B are renowned for their good production, great engineering, and have been around for like 25 years so that’s why i went for the Veazy, also all the accessories are sooo cheap compared to other vapes, want some dosing caps? here’s like 40 for £10, chamber is nice and big, and once you dial your temps in you’ll probably never touch the app, but honestly great vapouriser, and do not regret it one bit, S&B know what their doing, and this vape ticks all the boxes for someone whose looking for something above entry level, but that’s just my opinion, also personally i don’t like the all glass airpath on the Arizers, my XQ2 always seems to have a certain ‘taste’ to it my other vapes don’t, again great device though nonetheless, but imo go for the Veazy, bcos inevitably you’ll end up buying one or a Mighty or Crafty, if you want solid vapour production and a device from a company who have been at the top of the DHV game for years, then you will be happy with the Veazy, it’s my go to everyday, only downside is battery, but that can be solved by buying like a 10,000mah power bank for very cheap! good luck! this is the start of the rabbit hole
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
Direct-Active-241
22w8b0
1785178224.0
Exactly. Also evanescence is def not goth lol😭 goth is post punk, so The Cure, Bauhaus, Joy division, Gang of Four, and other goth band that aren’t post punk, Nine Inch Nails, Ministry, Skinny Puppy.
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
Separate_Cell_1194
22w8b0
1785178297.0
tbh it seems like a very balanced taste. NIce
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
Seemen_Foxx
22w8b0
1785183169.0
if you havent hit puberty by 11 i’d be concerned
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
EXTRACHEEZSAUCEPLS
22w8b0
1785185903.0
bro I'm so sorry I need sleep
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
PutinsCapybara
2rhqm
1785188647.0
I see what your saying and find the idea of sub-breakthrough 5-meo-dmt interesting in general, but is this really the best hedonism/sex drug for you? What are you comparing it to? Not disputing, just curious
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
1568314
2xhvq
1785192459.0
Id let her choose from paying what you came up with or else some sort of flat fee towards her room and board and gas
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
nekkidmonkey
2xhvq
1785192792.0
She could just not drive the car at all. Parents don’t owe grown children entertainment.
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
ArcadeFrog72
22w8b0
1785192801.0
ok
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
Jerkcaller69
2xhvq
1785192827.0
Teach her that she needs to bring the car back with a full tank. You’re making it overly complicated.
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
ArcadeFrog72
22w8b0
1785192829.0
what high school do you go to 😭✌️ year 7 starts at 12
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
Anônimo
2xhvq
1785193900.0
[removed]
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
anywhoanyway
2xhvq
1785195359.0
This comment needs to be much higher. The fact that you only have one car and need enough gas in the tank so you can get to work is the real issue. Charging her by the mile sounds weird until you know this info.
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
momdabombdiggity
2xhvq
1785196249.0
Anytime she uses the car to go out with friends, she needs to return it with a full tank.
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
5331G
2xhvq
1785197077.0
I am genuinely asking this: At what point does she take over paying for these things? I will always be her mom, but I do not intend to still be paying her rent and phone bill when she's 30. When and how does this transition happen?
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
Simbanut
q0suy
1785197330.0
Ditto. I have a fav dispensary because they have decent stuff on sale regularly (there’s a cheaper dispensary but it has poor selection) and then I try to stock up when I’m out of town.
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
Flashy_Surprise_5656
2xhvq
1785197538.0
You mentioned a job - can she pay for her own expenses? If you can’t afford a plane ticket, then you can’t. Done deal.
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
5331G
2xhvq
1785197743.0
She has a job in the summer only. I would ordinarily agree with you about her being stuck where she is if she can't get her own replacement plane ticket, but the dorms were closed and I'm not willing to make her homeless for a week for the sake of a lesson. I AM willing to make her pay it back later so she "feels it" and plans better next time.
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
Rosie___00
an4vua
1785197986.0
Definitely. She is out of line on a great many things! Culture is very different in non-western countries, and isn't compatible with "western values" in a lot of ways. I genuinely believe you'd be better off moving out at 18. Hang in there. Just keep your head down & start planning!
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
brit83mem
2xhvq
1785199019.0
It’s an unusual way to deal with sharing a car as most people just make sure the tank is filled before passing it on to the next person. Does your daughter even have a job to pay the mileage or gas?
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
TheCanadianpo8o
22w8b0
1785199503.0
Very normal standards. I'd look out at for the height thing, not cause its bad at all (its very reasonable), but cause I know plenty of guys who were under 5'7 in grade 9/10 and shot shot up to 6ft-ish in the next couple years cause puberty's weird
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
Marvelman11
22w8b0
1785200034.0
Fuck vaping 🤝
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
Bongojona
2rd5j
1785203123.0
You know it's an addiction when they just have to go outside in the freezing morning instead of sitting in the warm office. I understand ex smokers using them but it's the kids who never smoked but vaping that get me
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
5331G
2xhvq
1785204014.0
I respect that comment. It's hard because objective is what I'm thinking about 99% of things. Your point is taken. Thank you.
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
Sweaty-Tap7250
22w8b0
1785205698.0
If these are requirements get rid of the hair stuff
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
ICPikachu
2rhzk
1785207648.0
Use synthetic pee, then smoke all the weed you want. It's just for work, not probation.
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
LengthinessTrick382
2rhzk
1785207656.0
Female Whizzinator? DIY female urination device? THC stays in your body a long ass time. My friend still tested positive seven weeks after he last smoked. Good luck to you.
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
LengthinessTrick382
2rhzk
1785207909.0
Work drug tests generally are not supervised. They just ask you to empty your pockets. Do what you will with this info. Edit: Unless you’re working for your company, apparently.
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
Anônimo
2rhzk
1785208957.0
[deleted]
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
5331G
2xhvq
1785212576.0
Thanks. Yes, she does have a summer job.
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
Loose_Skill6641
2rd5j
1785213139.0
Same reasons there are barbers on every corner You can figure out why
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
SUMBWEDY
2rd5j
1785220855.0
I doubt it's money laundering or visa mills it's just insanely profitable. It's just a huge profit margin business with an incredibly addictive product and costs next to nothing to run a store. A bottle of vape juice costs about 50 cents to make (or google AI says $6 wholesale) but sell for $25-30 a bottle and you only need 1 or 2 rostered employees and a small storefront which rent is at most $30k for the smaller ones (there's a 12m2 commercial space in Mt Eden for just $12k a year). Assuming it costs say $150k to run a small place you only need to sell maybe 20 bottles of juice a day to break even. About 12% of the country vapes, that's 200,000~ people in Auckland alone each spending $50~ a month on just e-liquid which is $120 million a year.
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
WeWillTaxBees
22w8b0
1785221964.0
And I'm saying that's not up to you. Look, you've said your piece leave the girl alone. You being in a relationship doesn't make you the expert on love nor dictating what is best for everyone else.
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
oldpikar
33hvw
1785226897.0
Ja, sie kommt immer häufiger damit, weil ihre Uhr tickt. Ich finde aber, dass dann Alkoholkonsum auch ein offenes Thema sein muss, vor allem wenn er heimlich geschieht.
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
oldpikar
33hvw
1785227791.0
Dankeschön 
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
Which_Variation_870
33hvw
1785227966.0
Ich würde den nächsten Schritt mit Heirat und Kindern erstmal nicht gehen, solange dieses Thema nicht geklärt ist. Es geht dabei nicht nur um die Frage, ob sie tatsächlich mehr trinkt oder vapet, sondern vor allem darum, wie ihr mit schwierigen Themen umgeht. Du hast deine Sorgen ruhig und aus Liebe angesprochen, und trotzdem wurden sie heruntergespielt oder gegen dich gedreht („du suchst Drama“, „dann verlass mich doch“). Das ist ein Warnsignal, weil eine stabile Beziehung davon lebt, dass beide Sorgen des anderen ernst nehmen können. Gerade bei möglichen Suchtproblemen ist Offenheit wichtig. Das bedeutet nicht automatisch, dass sie abhängig ist, aber Verdrängen oder Abwehren macht die Situation nicht besser. Damit muss man gemeinsam arbeiten können. Ein Kind würde die Belastung nicht verringern, sondern erhöhen: weniger Schlaf, mehr Verantwortung, mehr Stress und weniger Ausweichmöglichkeiten. Wenn man schon jetzt bei einem schwierigen Thema nicht gemeinsam ins Gespräch kommt, sollte man sich ehrlich fragen, wie man mit den zusätzlichen Herausforderungen durch ein Kind umgehen würde. Ich würde deshalb nicht sofort sagen „Trennung“, aber ich würde sehr genau prüfen, ob ihr wirklich als Team funktioniert. Liebe allein reicht nicht, Vertrauen, Ehrlichkeit und die Fähigkeit, Probleme gemeinsam zu lösen, sind genauso wichtig.
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
Solid-Joke-1634
2rd5j
1785229783.0
Why isn’t a criminal offence when these people break the law? It’s only ever fines they get and licenses revoked. Why aren’t they put in prison, that would stop a lot of it happening without having to do extra investigations
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
oldpikar
33hvw
1785230560.0
Habe mich für morgen bei einer Beratung angemeldet 
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
amonoxyd
33hvw
1785232135.0
Wenn die Probleme so groß sind, versucht man genau das herauszufinden. Die Erstberatung ist genau dafür da und sinnvoller als 1.000 Fremde im Internet. (Entscheidend für sowas sollte mMn immer der Leidensdruck der Betroffenen sein, keine irgendwie scheinbar messbare Kriterien - für die Unterscheidung sind dann Profis da.)
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
Livid_Clock7804
33hvw
1785233410.0
… und sie sieht es immer noch nicht ein. Was hat sich also konkret geändert?
Reddit
reddit_comments_busca_1.parquet
ZealousidealPin2427
33hvw
1785233519.0
Schwierige Situation! Mein Rat, das Thema Kinder und Heirat erst einmal nach hinten schieben. Es muß geklärt werden, ob sie ein Problem mit dem Alkohol hat. Zumal sie es vor Dir verheimlichen sucht. Eine Bierflasche im Kleiderschrank zu verstecken ist nicht normal! Sie weiß sehr genau, dass sie damit ein Problem hat. Hier etwas zu empfehlen, ohne das man die Personen persönliche kennt, ist bei dieser Situation nicht seriös. Geh bitte zu einer professionellen Beratung.